Achieving big, scary goals is about pushing past fear, embracing risks, and leaning into the support of others. Success isn’t about having all the answers; it’s about navigating uncertainty with courage and trusting the process. If you want to reach the seemingly impossible, mindset and action must go hand in hand.
If your goals don’t scare you, they’re probably not big enough. Fear isn’t there to stop you—it’s a sign that you’re stepping outside your comfort zone. Think of FEAR as “Face Everything And Rise.” When you feel fear, it’s an indicator that you’re on the verge of growth. Whether it’s launching something new, raising your prices, or taking on a challenge that seems daunting, fear is often a guide, pointing you toward your next breakthrough. Mindset is everything because how you perceive and respond to fear can determine whether you stay stuck or move forward.
Risk is a necessary ingredient for growth. Staying in your comfort zone may feel safe, but it also keeps you stagnant. Taking risks doesn’t mean being reckless—it means trusting your ability to adapt and figure things out. Imagine walking a tightrope. At first, every step feels shaky, and you might worry about falling. But the more you move forward, the more confident and steady you become. Risk works the same way. Each step stretches your boundaries, expanding your comfort zone and allowing you to achieve what once felt impossible. The best part? With every risk you take, you become stronger and more capable of handling what’s ahead.
Being transparent and vulnerable is another key to success. It’s tempting to present yourself as someone who has it all figured out, but authenticity builds trust. Sharing your challenges and mistakes shows that you’re human, and it opens the door for deeper connections with others. When you’re honest about what you’re going through, people are more likely to step in with valuable insights and support. Collaboration flourishes when you let go of the need to appear perfect.
No one achieves success alone, and building a strong network is essential. Surround yourself with mentors, peers, and colleagues who bring unique strengths and perspectives. Think of your support system like a rainbow—each person adds something different, creating a vibrant and powerful team. Learning to accept support is just as important as offering it. It’s not a weakness to lean on others; it’s a way to grow. When someone offers guidance or assistance, they’re investing in your success, and that’s something to embrace with gratitude.
Reciprocity is a two-way street. Just as others help you, offering support to those around you creates opportunities for mutual growth. Success is never just about your journey—it’s about contributing to the success of others as well.
Big, scary goals are where transformation happens. Facing fear, taking risks, and relying on your support system will help you achieve what once seemed impossible. Trust yourself, embrace the process, and remember that every step forward is progress toward the extraordinary.
Wendy Y Bailey
WendyY Bailey is often called a Force of Nature and a trendsetter in the coaching industry and for good reason. With more than 20 years of experience, she brings fearless innovation and bold strategy to entrepreneurial leaders, coaches, speakers, trainers, and consultants across the globe serving clients across the U.S., Canada, the UK, Spain, and Italy. Affectionately known as “WendyY” by clients, business associates, and colleagues, she’s also lovingly called “Auntie” or “Mama Coach” for her signature blend of Southern charm, fierce wisdom, and deep coaching insight. That special mix helps her clients double, triple, even quintuple their bottomline profits. WendyY is an internationally recognized thought leader, award-winning coach, two-time bestselling author, and sought-after business mentor.
